feat: use SecretStr for inference provider auth credentials (#3724)

# What does this PR do?

use SecretStr for OpenAIMixin providers

- RemoteInferenceProviderConfig now has auth_credential: SecretStr
- the default alias is api_key (most common name)
- some providers override to use api_token (RunPod, vLLM, Databricks)
- some providers exclude it (Ollama, TGI, Vertex AI)

addresses #3517 

## Test Plan

ci w/ new tests

llama_stack/providers/remote/inference/fireworks/config.py

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@
 
 from typing import Any
 
-from pydantic import Field, SecretStr
+from pydantic import Field
 
 from llama_stack.providers.utils.inference.model_registry import RemoteInferenceProviderConfig
 from llama_stack.schema_utils import json_schema_type
@@ -18,10 +18,6 @@ class FireworksImplConfig(RemoteInferenceProviderConfig):
         default="https://api.fireworks.ai/inference/v1",
         description="The URL for the Fireworks server",
     )
-    api_key: SecretStr | None = Field(
-        default=None,
-        description="The Fireworks.ai API Key",
-    )
 
     @classmethod
     def sample_run_config(cls, api_key: str = "${env.FIREWORKS_API_KEY:=}", **kwargs) -> dict[str, Any]: