chore: turn OpenAIMixin into a pydantic.BaseModel (#3671)

# What does this PR do?

- implement get_api_key instead of relying on
LiteLLMOpenAIMixin.get_api_key
 - remove use of LiteLLMOpenAIMixin
 - add default initialize/shutdown methods to OpenAIMixin
 - remove __init__s to allow proper pydantic construction
- remove dead code from vllm adapter and associated / duplicate unit
tests
 - update vllm adapter to use openaimixin for model registration
 - remove ModelRegistryHelper from fireworks & together adapters
 - remove Inference from nvidia adapter
 - complete type hints on embedding_model_metadata
- allow extra fields on OpenAIMixin, for model_store, __provider_id__,
etc
 - new recordings for ollama
 - enhance the list models error handling
- update cerebras (remove cerebras-cloud-sdk) and anthropic (custom
model listing) inference adapters
 - parametrized test_inference_client_caching
- remove cerebras, databricks, fireworks, together from blanket mypy
exclude
 - removed unnecessary litellm deps

## Test Plan

ci

llama_stack/providers/remote/inference/passthrough/passthrough.py

@@ -31,12 +31,6 @@ class PassthroughInferenceAdapter(Inference):
         ModelRegistryHelper.__init__(self)
         self.config = config
 
-    async def initialize(self) -> None:
-        pass
-
-    async def shutdown(self) -> None:
-        pass
-
     async def unregister_model(self, model_id: str) -> None:
         pass